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I’ve been thinking of the advice I wish I had come across back then instead. I’ve been thinking about that weird water tip I tried years ago. I took the seriousness out of giving blowjobs. That made them better for me and my partner, and it taught me a lot about giving good head. I credit Cherry Crush for some of this - I love the way she treats her partner’s cock like a toy for her mouth to play with. Now, I approach blowjobs with a much more experimental and playful attitude. I just do whatever seems fun and see what kind of reaction it gets. I realized that there’s so much more I can do when I’m down there. Until I started focusing on my partner’s pleasure, I thought of blowjobs as a very streamlined activity. Just figure out the two or three things that feel best and do them repeatedly until you’re tired or he comes (in my case, until I’m tired). I look at listicles filled with blowjob advice. Now, I study it like an art. When I see someone give a great blowjob in a porn video, I don’t just get off to it - I take notes. Learning to love blowjobs made me a lot more serious about giving them. I didn’t want to give one that was just good or good enough - I want to deliver some professional-quality mouth action. From that point on, I would just try to suck and lick as vigorously and thoroughly as I could.īut then I entered my blowjob renaissance. Over the last few years, giving head went from something I did to please my partner to something I did for the sheer pleasure of doing. I genuinely get off on giving head. It was a total fail, and I became a bit skeptical of blowjob advice. Why all the breaks? Why did everything feel so wet but not in a good way? I blindfolded him and had him lay on the bed. I gave him head and took breaks every thirty seconds or so to take sips from two cups of water, one with ice cold water, the other with hot water.Ĭhanging the temperature of my mouth was supposed to make him go crazy. It was around this time that I started looking for sex advice and I came across a blowjob tip I was hoping to use so I could blow his mind. I would still bob my head on it, but I’d also stroke it, kiss it, lick it, and take some time to look at it and appreciate it.

This time, I wanted to do better. He was attentive to my body, so I became more attentive to his cock. Later, I met a guy who was a lot more serious about giving me pleasure. Instead of feeling pressured to give him head or doing it so he didn’t dump me, I was doing it out of genuine appreciation for him. I wanted to make him feel good and I wanted to repay me for all the hours of tongue time he gave me. Those early blowjobs were basically reverse face-fucking - a cock was going in and out of my mouth but not much else was going on. I softly wrapped my lips around his erection and bobbed my head up and down. I used my hand, but only to keep his dick in place. What I gave him was the bare minimum of what could qualify as a blowjob. When I first started giving head, I was nervous as hell. I knew the basic idea behind a blowjob, but I didn’t know how to give one. But my boyfriend kept insisting on it, so I eventually decided to suck it up, part my lips, and put his cock between them. My attitude about blowjobs has evolved over the years, and my technique has changed along with it. There’s more to it than sucking and licking